If we differ from this stereotype at all — as many of us do — we can end up feeling undesirable, unacknowledged, and unworthy of sex. The only difference for plus-size folk is you might have to make some adjustments … you might have to move your fat. I know the idea of this can make some people shudder, but think of it this way, moving your fat is like pulling your hair back to make a ponytail or adjusting your junk in your pants. To get clearer on what that means and entails check out this cool graphic on consent brought to you by Planned Parenthood. Lube is an absolute necessity for anal sex, and with penetrative sex, lube can actually make sex easier and more enjoyable as well as help prevent possible micro-tears in the vagina and anus caused by a lot of friction. For a person of size, pillows or even better, something sturdier like the Liberator Wedge , which is made out of industrial foam are your best friends. Masturbation gets the sexual juices flowing, helps you get to know your body better and helps you discover how different parts of your body respond to touch.

Full-figured couples can have hot sex too! Our positions for plus-size couples take into consideration the modifications overweight men and women need to enjoy new, exciting sex positions. These are our best illustrated sex positions for plus size couples. Our Position of the Week Email Newsletter encourages couples to try a new position every week.

Takeaway: Sex is sexy at any size, but some positions work better than others. Despite what you may have been led to believe, sex is sexy at any size. When you flip through a sex position book, though, you may find yourself feeling a bit disappointed if you have some extra weight on your frame. Many sex position suggestions were designed for the athletically-bodied.