In a previous article, we had a look at some of the struggles that girls with big bums go through. If you sit on his laps, he will complain that you are too bony and it hurts. Or, he will choose to play it cool and keep quiet but deep down, he wishes that you could just sit on the couch instead. And so does sitting on the bench! You have to keep on standing to at least give your poor bum a break. When other girls are shaking their bum bums in a party, you just watch and wish you could do the same.

Big butts became a huge no pun intended thing in I mean, big butts have been seen as signs of sexy, awesome, womanliness since pretty much the beginning of time, but they really started trending in mainstream media for the first time last year which just kinda shows you how much mainstream concepts of beauty had been missing out on before then. And while I'm eternally in awe of these bubble butts all around me, they don't do anything to diminish the powerful love I have for my own admittedly super flat ass. Despite what popular culture and conventional standards of sexiness would have us believe, there are definitely some reasons flat asses are just as great as big booties. Since my childhood in the '90's, the world around me, which exceedingly validates a big, round bottom as the shape to want, has been giving me a lot of insecurities about my rear end.

Skip navigation! Story from Body. This story was originally published on September 16th, Butts have been having a moment. Such a moment, in fact, that even the staff over at Vogue caught wind of the trend.